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rm_stiff992000 37 M
1  question
females cumming like men - 6/22/2008

does any one know how to make a women cum , i am talki.ng about when it shoots out across the room like a man or is it specific to certain women.

17 response(s), 24 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Condoms?? - 6/22/2008

Which is better? Smooth, Ribbed, or other Textured?

10 response(s), 15 votes
kekekitty77598 55 C
1  question
Best Sex Ever - 6/21/2008

When you recollect the best sex you've ever had, who was it with? Was it with your first? How about an ex-girlfriend? Anyone lay claim to having the best sex ever with an ex-wife? Maybe a fling or one night stand? Or are you the romantic who enjoys the best sex ever with your current lover/wife?

10 response(s), 14 votes
Another question about size... - 6/21/2008

...except that this one is about height. Ladies, how important is a guy's height in terms of attraction? I'm only 5'6" and because of that I'm usually intimidated about approaching taller women. Do most women prefer taller guys? Or is personality enough to make up for the lack in stature? I've probably missed out on meeting many great people because I thought of my size as a ...

10 response(s), 15 votes
rm_mandygirl21 37 F
4  questions
Why do guys want a blow job first hing in the morning? - 6/21/2008

Id really like to know

24 response(s), 32 votes
thekingNJ 58 C
1  question
Only in the US - 6/21/2008

Only in America .....do drugstores make the sick walk all the way to the back of the store to get their prescriptions while healthy people can buy cigarettes at the front.

Only in America ......do people order double cheeseburgers, large fries, and a diet coke. !

Only in America ......do banks leave both doors open and then chain the pens to the ...


14 response(s), 26 votes
rm_gingerpale2 51 C
1  question
photos - 6/21/2008

ive been waiting for my photos to be approved for 4 days now and they are still pending.how long does it normally take?

16 response(s), 10 votes
Bring_it_now555 47 M
5  questions
again for the Women. - 6/21/2008

How to get a womans attention to start a conversation with, that does not sound like a line?

13 response(s), 13 votes
MFM? - 6/21/2008

good? let us know !

10 response(s), 11 votes
Adult Matchfirm "bug" - 6/21/2008

I am currently using a dummy account because according to Adult Matchfirm my account has a "bug" and I can not access it. Its still there according to my friends, and I am seen as online. But I can not get past the Adult Matchfirm home page. Its been going on now for 3 weeks. Adult Matchfirm says they are working on it. Has anyone else been having this problem recently?

9 response(s), 9 votes
New Adult Matchfirm feature - 6/21/2008

So I signed on to Adult Matchfirm the other day, and under where it shows the status of my membership, it has a little graph showing my profile is only 49% complete. WTF? Thinking another glitch may have erased part of my profile, I clicked on it, and saw several categories with a red "X" next to them, and it said I needed to complete these sections in order for my profile to be complete. After clicking ...

10 response(s), 4 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
NSA sex - 6/21/2008

Why do some people thing that NSA sex is just a quick fuck with no personal connection? There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone before you fuck. I am still friends with people i had great NSA sex with. Do you feel this way or is NSA sex just a one night stand for you?

17 response(s), 21 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
Question to an answer to another Question....... - 6/21/2008

Men what would you like on a profile do you want to know everything there is to know about a person when it comes to sex or would you rather talk to someone that doesn't say as much?? And Women do you put everything you like and enjoy on your profile or do you hold back to keep something for later?



how I feel.......

I have found that it is easier just to put what i ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
StandleyLakeCpl 63 C
8  questions
How do you keep it feeling new? - 6/21/2008

How do you keep passion and sexual desire fresh, exciting, and strong in a long time relationship? What steps do you take to avoid complacency if you’ve been together a long time?

6 response(s), 10 votes
rm_dodger7645 48 F
56  questions
To be or not to be....................... - 6/21/2008

Good Morning everyone: I am asking this basically of the men on here, even though I know that women do the same thing. Why is it that some men state that they are looking for someone to be intimate with and not interested in multiple partners or swinging but then they are banging anything that stands still long enough? Good grief, some I've talked to give new meaning to "fuck me running." ...

13 response(s), 40 votes
shortspurs 50 F
3  questions
What am I doing?? - 6/21/2008

I've actually got a couple of questions in this so here goes:

OK so my profile says I would like a LTR, so why is it that my last 3 fb's (all at seperate times - I'm a one guy woman) these guys have now sent me messages that they have now got full-time partners. I got the message they were no longer interested in me when they didn't return my calls / messages / e-mails, so I moved on. ...

16 response(s), 29 votes
Why I am in Adult Matchfirm site ? - 6/21/2008

I enjoy the attention I am getting on the site.Although I am not IN the game that most people are doing . And it's also nice to measure the intelligency and decency of a person on how they describe themselves . The content of their messages .The photo they posted .

We all know that the site is just for sex and fun you name it . But I think there's a certain degree that differs one menber ...

9 response(s), 18 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
WHO'S THINKING ABOUT SEX TODAY? LOL - 6/21/2008

Just wondering if anyone is thinkin' about sex?

19 response(s), 22 votes
CorbinSwisher 26 M
1  question
I just need to know - 6/21/2008

Ladies am I attractive in any way? Because I have been on here for almost a month and I really don't get any responses from my e-mails or anyone coming up to me for that matter? Is there something I'm missing here?

14 response(s), 23 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
for the ladies - 6/21/2008

i check my activity on my home page to see who has viewed or flirted, i usually have 4 to 5 a day, not counting regulars but only a few a week will flirt, my question is when you view a mans profile do you feel Viewing him ...

9 response(s), 17 votes
REAL - 6/21/2008

i joined up yesterday, I'm in the UK I'm 45 have sparse details in my profile and no pic and today a hot looking 22 year old e-mails me with 2 pics of herself which I can't open as I'm a new member whats the chances of her being fake to get me to pay up, guessing between 99-100%. does that happen a lot on here

20 response(s), 13 votes
I_love_petites2 33 M
2  questions
Women: how should we ask you this? - 6/21/2008

I know this question is more than cliche, but I'd like to ask:

say a man that you know a little is sexually interested in you, and would like to express that feeling to you...

how could he do so, without being labeled a loser, a dick, or else?

I'd really appreciate some advice, on this. thanks
...

6 response(s), 18 votes
rm_otcdrgs 57 M
3  questions
Right/wrong/who knows? - 6/20/2008

My problem here has to do with the having a good time. My wife doesn't seem to know how to let go. She doesn't have a good time where she feels footloose and fancy free. It does seem to me that there are alot of people in the world like that. That is one reason i'm on this site. Yes, it does take 2 to tango, but if you can't just take things for what they are, how are you to enjoy yourself. I am ...

16 response(s), 24 votes
midniteroses1966 46 F
3  questions
HELLO LADIES - 6/20/2008

WHAT TURNS A LADY ON ABOUT ANOTHER , FOR ME IT IS BREAST AND NICE ASS .

10 response(s), 13 votes
Gay voice - 6/20/2008

If a man talks with a femininse sound in he voice does it mean he gay?

6 response(s), 14 votes
rm_ducttapegal 37 F
21  questions
Member's Profiles - 6/20/2008

I was just wondering why is it about half of the men that send me messages have profiles with only one or two lines about themselves. I would think that for men on this site, where men out number women 10-1 or more, that they would try to put as much information as they could on their profile? Do they really think they are going to get much of a response by just listing a age, their hight, hair ...

10 response(s), 22 votes
a question for men, - 6/20/2008

my wife asked me , what it is that turns a man on about seeing his wife / gf with another man. thats a hard 1 to answer. help me out lol

18 response(s), 20 votes
dudley0142 52 M
2  questions
Anal Play - 6/20/2008

So why is it some women like only anal play and not anal sex??? If my partner is not into it thats fine I dont push (lol) the topic. Ive run into this a few times and have never been given a clear reason for this.

13 response(s), 15 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
What is your opinion of Testamonies??? - 6/20/2008

Hey everyone,

I hope all is going GREAT AND FUN for you all.Here is my question...



If a person has testamonies on there profle(like mine)....is it a turn off? OR do you see it as "here is a person that is at least real"(we all know that there are alot of fake and flakes on here)? OR would you rather see someone with the confirm ID in there profile, OR would you perfer ...

22 response(s), 18 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Rules For Online Dating? Do You Have Any? - 6/20/2008

The first time I met a man on Adult Matchfirm, I told him I had rules! He chuckled; yet, gulped at the same time! Me? I just clearly stated these are my rules and I'm stickin' to 'em! Alrighty then!

So my rules for online dating are:

1) We exchange emails off site and have some phone conversation. I think email is one thing, but, to be honest, a person's voice does give you "some" ...

18 response(s), 24 votes