I've had some of the most wonderful times since joining AFF.I've met some fascinating singles and couples and have established some wonderful friendships.I wouldn't have guessed that it is even remotely possible in a sex site!!!I was a sceptic but not anymore...LOL!!!! As much as I love the 1 to 1 sessions,lately I have been involved in many 3somes and 4 somes. Occasionally,my girlfriend would join in.I do prefer friendly,smart and attractive people.Those who are confident and comfortable in their skin are deemed attractive in my books.No doubt that brains and beauty are an awesome combination but not a necessity.Just be pleasant!! I am a professional,confident man and dresses well.Pleasant,caring and warm in nature but wild in bed!!I am passionate and treat my ladies well.I am an attractive man and physically fit and in good shape as I workout at least 3 to 4 times a week!!A true sportsman at heart! I am clean and well endowed.Oral sex is vitally important to me both ways.Infact I love eating and being eaten.Another great turn on is actually your natural body odour...so stay clean!!I also love women who takes good care of their body irrespective of age.That I admire!!Intelligence is a major turn on!! There are countless females and couples on this site and for me, I only want those who are serious and REAL!!!I am GENUINE.I dont give my pics until I am certain I do not know you and that I am comfortable with you!!!This world can be a lot smaller then we think it is...LOL!!! Meeting up before playing is a must.There is nothing like meeting in per as pictures can be very deceiving and its the best way to determine compatibility.If we like each other,we shag and if we dont,we can remain as good friends.Play safe everybody!!!

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a friend and a discreet sexual partner.Intelligent and attractive women is a definite turn on.She must love sex adventurous and ever willing to explore.Would like to have frequent wild sessions with her and together look for other couples to make out(3 or 4some).

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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