Please read this profile carefully before contacting us. We're a kinky polyamorous couple. We've been together for nearly 20 years and we'll stay together for life. This means we don't sneak around behind each others' back--we do it with full knowledge and support. But we play regularly with others, both together and separately. Sometimes Chloe is loaned to other couples or singles for their pleasure and enjoyment. Sometimes others are brought into our own scenes to enhance our play. It's always red hot, very edgy, NSA, and sexually charged. We have recently relocated to Suffolk, UK from San Francisco, and are keen to socialise and expand our circle of kinky friends. It is fun just being around other kinky folks, not having to roll our eyes and button our lips all the time the way you do around vanilla people. We embrace all kinds of kink, fetishism, and alternative gender identity: it may not necassarily be our thing, but we don't knock it. And if we sound too hard-core for you, don't worry, we're also happy to be friends with benefits, without any pressure to play it our way. But if you're interested, Chloe is turned on by submitting to experienced male and female Dommes. Her leanings including bondage, impact play, electricity and watersports (not at the same time!) She is not into pain for pain's sake, it's all just foreplay really. Hugo, an experienced top, enjoys training other subs, either together with Chloe, or solo, or co-topping with another Domme. He doesn't need to be severe: what gets him off is taking a sub to the edge, and turning it into sex. And he even switches from time to time! We're healthy and disease free and we only play safely, sanely and consensually. We have flexible hours and can host once we get to know you, but would prefer to travel or meet somewhere neutral until we get comfortable with each other.

My Ideal Person We're looking for couples, or a single man or woman. Age, race, and body type are less important to us than what's between your ears. The mind is the most powerful sex organ! So we want someone who's fun to be around, not guilt-laden or uptight about their perverted sexuality. Someone who is open-minded, intelligent, and who is NOT sneaking around behind a spouse or partner's back. This is what it means to be 'polyamorous' to us, so if you're just looking for a bit on the side and that means you'll be cheating on someone, we don't want to know. You should also be experienced in BDSM, ie you've had some first hand experience--or at the least, you've educated yourself--about the protocols and the legal/medical aspects of BDSM play. Ok, everyone's experimented a bit with spanking or handcuffs: that's not what we mean. Reality tends to turn out very different from the way it was in your private fantasy. Playing with others is a delicate matter. If you're just embarking on this, we wish you well--we were there too once, but we really don't want to be your mentors or tutors. And if you describe yourself as 'bi-curious' this probably won't work. Couples where the guy is 'straight' and the woman is 'bi' (which seems to be the majority of cases on Adult Matchfirm and Alt.com) are not for us, because we both like to have sex with people of both genders, and where there is a D/s power-exchange involved. We're not saying this to sound superior, just to avoid you wasting your and our time by sending us emails and pics which will go right in the Trash!