Long time couple who has no idea if this is right for us, but was encouraged by friends to check it out. We both know what works for each other, but think the exploration might be fun to try. We are trying to bring another person into the fold, but we do not plan to have any same sex intamacy at this time.

My Ideal Person For something like this? We have no idea. Prob thinking about bringing a single person rather than joining a group, so who we typically get along with are people who have relaxed vibes and able to just hang out together. It bothers us when it feels like someone is always working us.

We want to stay open minded, but people who are too different in age than us might be difficult to connect with on a personal level. Don't need to find a soul mate, but considering what may happen physically, the more comfort the better.

Our sex together ranges from slightly Dom to Sub, but not carzy. So ex: doggy may seem like a must for some readers, but it takes a lot of trust on the other end if you get my drift, so your attitude does make a difference.