We've been in the lifestyle for about 2 years. We've had some wonderful experiences up to now and have learned that we're most comfortable with same room and soft swap to start. That's not to say that things can't evolve to more if the chemistry is right and we are comfortable around you. If you can make us laugh and make us think, we'll be into you! We are married (10+ years), madly in love, educated professionals, into irreverent humor, good food and great company. We are not Ken and Barbie, nor do we expect physical perfection, but height/weight proportional is a plus. We are active and down-to-earth. Please no fakes, drama or head games. And absolutely [COLOR red]NO SINGLE MEN![/COLOR]

My Ideal Person We are fairly new to this, but have a few basic things that we are looking for.

Firstly, NO SINGLE MEN! We're not interested! If we ever get to that point...we'll contact you. Otherwise your emails will be deleted.

Secondly, We are looking for folks (couples or possibly single females) who are funny (irreverent humor is a must), enjoy the outdoors, good food, and who can carry on great conversations. We have to have some sort of connection/chemistry in order to be attracted to you--personality does count!

Thirdly, We are interested in meeting people that are capable of independent thought. We like to have nice conversation and meaningful exchanges. If you send us emails with only a few words, grunts, and incomplete sentences, it's an indication to us that we're probably not going to be into you.

Lastly, We are a couple. We've embarked upon this adventure to have fun with one another. We are only interested in chatting/meeting/sharing experiences with other couples and single women TOGETHER.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Keb Mo', Beastie Boys, Johnnie Lang, Green Day, Red
Hot Chili Peppers, TMBG, Beck

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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