I'm the type who's rarely the first to make a move, but once things are moving, I'm really something else. Hey there! I'm a regular fellow, a little on the quiet side, but I thaw fairly quick once I get to know you. I'm your typical married/without sex husband. I love my wife, but I have needs, too. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. For me a perfect date is a night on the town with a fascinating companion. I tend to be the quiet guy in the room. I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. I'm just wondering where all the strong, confident women are. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.